Friday, December 12, 2008
Happy Holidays!!!
First of all, congrats Crystal!! I am so completely proud of you for getting licensed. You are such a good example and leader for the rest of us (or at least those that are continuing down the route of MFT)
I am going to be up in the area at Christmastime for about a week. Matt and I will be visiting his family for part of the time but I will have time to visit with my buddies as much as possible. I miss you all so much!! Feel free to email me your current phone numbers if your interested in getting together...mjarrett@mgc-gc.com.
So what's new in CO....Matt and I are doing well-not engaged yet-and we're both completely fine with that. We are both working on our own businesses as well as working full time so we are busy!!! Matt is still with a real estate/construction company building high rises downtown. He is working on doing his own thing in the real estate investment side of things. (sort of flipping houses type of dealy). I am still with Westaff although I hope by the time I come up to WA, I can say different. My company has had a lot of changes at the management level and I have seen a lot of my dearest friends get pushed out of the company and I feel guilty about sticking around. I have been actively looking elsewhere and have had good response from two companies I've interviewed with-both for recruiting roles. I am loving the path I am taking and my business venture is taking me in the same direction as Suse. I have decided to pursue my love of photography and start a business doing portraits, and eventually weddings (I'm not ready for that yet). I do not want to step on Susanne's toes at all because she is AMAZING at what she does but I feel safe to share my work with you since I'm in an entirely different state. My hope is to eventually leave the workforce ("damn the man!") and work for myself but I am not ready for this yet. My webpage that I'm working on is meganjarrettphotography.com
What is new with everyone else? I cannot wait to see those of you that I can. Can we plan a lunch or something?? Matt and I will be there the Mon before Christmas and leaving the Sat after so I would love to plan something.
I miss you all-I'll post some recent pics soon.
Megan
P.S. Anyone checked out this whole "twilight" hysteria?? I have completely embarrassing photos to share of my friends and I going out for drinks and to this movie (we have all read all 4 books) and my friend decided it would be fun for us to all wear T-shirts and buttons pronouncing our love for Edward (hopefully someone knows what I'm talking about) we had a blast!!! from what little I can remember....)
Monday, November 10, 2008
LMFT
I apologize for my lack of posting. This summer was spent studying for the exam and lately work has been non-stop, I cherish when I can practice some self care! I also have finally become an aunt like many of us. I get to visit my new nephew over Christmas. Susanne, I wish I could afford to fly you out to South Carolina so you could take gorgeous pictures of my brother and his family!!
Jeff was out here in October and we have plans to see each other again next month. We are still working on ending up on the same side of the country!
I miss everyone and hope you are all doing wonderful. Please e-mail or call if you want to catch up more!
Always,
Crystal
Sunday, September 21, 2008
I'm so sad

Friday, September 19, 2008
Engaged!
Dennis and and I are getting married! It's been a crazy week and I'm still wrapping my head around it! We had been planning a trip to Trinidad and Tobago when hurricane Ike derailed out flight so we can to cancel the trip. We were so bummed but decided to head to the San Juan Islands for some R and R. On Tuesday night we decided to drive to the other side of the island to watch the sunset and lucked out with finding a private little beach with no one around. The next thing I know, Dennis was on his knee! It was so romantic! I cried, he cried--it was unbelievable. We, like Janett and Mike, are wanting to just enjoy the engagement and have not set a date yet.
In other news, I still love my job as an adoption worker, I've taken up knitting, and Dennis and I hope to get a dog next summer!
I read the blog all the time, I'm obsessed with Susanne's blog, and can't believe how long it's been since we all finished school! I am always excited when I read the blog and hear the updates congrats to everyone for the many, many wonderful things that are happening in your lives!
Here are some pictures of the engagement event and there are more on my Facebook.
Friday, September 12, 2008
Hello Everyone!
Kellee-congrats!!! I know it's scary to mail off that mortgage payment but also such a nice feeling!!! I'm still waiting to hear the news of babies but I don't want to be one of "those people" that are always asking about the next step-just enjoy where you're at and the practice for making baby ;)
Suse-I keep meaning to add comments about your photos. I'm astounded by your talent!! You are such an inspiration to me as I am trying to get my own footing in gaining more experience with the professional photography realm and portraits and weddings and such-you're really doing it and I could not be prouder of you. I think you've found what you are meant to do and the people in Tacoma are lucky to have you around to capture all of their memories...I'll have to call you again soon to catch up and seek out more advice.
Matt, Larry and I are still doing well...I'll try to post a couple of pics here for an update. Not too much is new with us which really just means that everything continues to be going well. We are actually flying to Wisconsin tomorrow for the weekend to celebrate my grandparents 60th wedding anniversary-60!!! I really think that's unbelievable and I'm looking forward to seeing all of my family. (My brother will be there with Dutch (his son) who I posted about awhile back while he was in the NICU-I"m glad to say that Dutch is now full weight and happy and healthy and I can't wait to see him and post more pics like a proud aunt would.)
Like everyone else-I check in often but somehow have been having trouble posting comments. I'm so appreciative of the folks hat take the time to update everyone on here as I still think about all of you and miss you and regret that I don't live closer to get together for lunch or a bbq on our deck!
Here's a couple of pics and then I will si
gn off for the night-I miss you all!!!
Friday, September 05, 2008
We're Homeowners!!
I'm glad everyone seems to be doing well!
Thursday, August 07, 2008
Engaged!
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Hope all goes well! Let's hear some news from out there. When are we having lunch? Or coffee? We must all be too busy.
Loving summertime, just not getting outside enough. Finally getting a jewelry web-site made, should be ready by September. Now I just have to get some jewelry made. I'll post it when it's done. xo K
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Well Hello!
Well first off....Suse! I have been reading your blog to the point that Matt makes fun of me and I am absolutely in love with your family. I will call you soon to check in, but I hope you can somehow feel my love and support coming across to you as I find you AMAZING!!! (so jealous of your photography skills...)
Next-Kellee...I'm so excited for you! I know you are going to make such an amazing mother-I'm just waiting for the day to hear that you are expecting. I got your message and I really miss and love you...I will call you this week...
And my dear Katherine....I read your posts and honestly have to go back and start at the beginning and read it again...I just think "huh? Is someone really lucky enough to live this life!" I miss you so much and really do think about you daily. I love you and am glad to hear that all is going so well!
Well now onto important matters...me!! (haha...totally kidding...)
I think I have delayed posting because I am in a severe situation of transition! I don't even know where to start. Matt and I are still LOVING Colorado...just missing all of our buddies! We have a lot of good friends here but it just doesn't compare...
I am still working with Westaff as a recruiter-I know the last some of you heard was that I was applying for a family services coordinator. Well-things have changed a little bit. After a lot of contemplation (and meetings with the CO association of MFTs) I really made the final decision to move on from MFT. I am actually tearing up a little bit as I write this (especially reading that you all are moving on towards licensure-that's amazing!) I have decided to stay in the human resources field as I really feel that it is a good fit for me. I went back and forth quite a bit, but I realized that much of my pull towards staying in MFT was guilt that I had the degree and should be helping people. I struggled with this a bit in the end, I know that while I value my degree and the time I spent with all of you-I know I need to persue something different for myself. I feel very confidant in my decision and am excited to see what is ahead...I have some things in the works but am holding off on telling anyone until I know some final details.
Moving on...
Matt, Larry and I are doing well...I need to take some updated pictures and post them (Larry is literally a horse...words cannot describe) We are still living in a townhome just north of Denver. We were talking recently about moving up to the Vail area but plans with that fell through. No talks of a wedding yet...always sometime in the future...but no date as of yet. We've had a lot of sress/change with both of us considering new jobs/places to live, etc. that I think once everything settles down-we can start looking toward the future a bit more.
What about you Joy...married yet??
I love all of you and miss you! More updates to come soon!
Megan
Monday, June 09, 2008
Hi All!
My life seems to idling right now as Michael and I are waiting for the Fall to come. We are waiting for our house to be released for sale by the builder. As soon as this happens and we are moved in we will start trying to get pregnant. It seems like the women all around me are pregnant and babies are popping out all the over the place. This is making my "mommy" hormones go crazy! My time will come; I just wish sooner rather than later!
I am preparing for my licensure exam right now. I have to have all the documents in by July 7th. This is close to the two-year post masters date and I started working full-time prior to graduation. I'm crossing my fingers they let me take it. This was the situation with another AYR therapist and he was able to, however, I have heard mixed things. Wish me luck!
I'm glad to hear you are all doing well!
I will update you when I am finally pregnant!
Sunday, June 08, 2008
I also made a ruby, gold, and watermelon tourmaline bracelet today that turned out really pretty, and am planning to make a necklace and earrings.
I went to my college reunion in Southern California in early May. It was fun, great weather, and lots of good connections with old and new friends. Bob and I went to visit friends in Bow/Edison a couple of weekends ago and ended up at a wake for a musician (Coyote George) whom we didn't know, but our friends encouraged us to go and we were glad we did. Coyote George worked in the mental health field in addition to playing guitar in the Poor Man's Jug Band, so there were lots of interesting people there who also worked in mental health. At the end of the evening we did a ceremony and then they lit this 10-foot wide metal eagle with kerosene-soaked fiberglass rope and made the wings flap while it was covered with foot-high flames!!! Totally amazing!!! I want something like that at my wake!!! Like a giant phoenix bird. The next day our friend's girlfriend invited us to go to a little gourmet picnic on the deck outside Taylor Shellfish on Samish Bay, with caviar, oysters, clams, mussels, nice salads.... it was a really great weekend.
We have a book group at work and just read Winter Dance by Gary Paulsen about the Iditarod, which was a fun read and increased my respect for dogs and made me want to go to Alaska. I'd love to be able to see the sights he describes in the book, without freezing my nose, face, or toes off. I just started another book by Pete Dexter called Train, which is so good I don't want to put it down.
I'm also walking some, trying to get ready to walk the Virginia Mason 1/2 Marathon at the end of June again. It's hard to find the time to walk as much as I did last year. I'll just have to use determination to get through it, and moan and groan later.
I'm going to the Behavioral Health Conference with a few people from work, over in Yakima, which will be nice, since it promises to actually feel like summer over there. Anybody else going? I miss seeing all you people at our monthly lunches or the occasional party. I hear Charlie is retiring in the Fall. Will there be a party like for Cheryl? I'm sure there will be.
And did Crystal take her licensing test, yet? I guess I need to read more posts. :) Time for the book and the bed. xo K
Thursday, May 29, 2008
A life out side of my kids :)
So, I have the great honor of being appointed the leader of the "Family Readiness Group" for Greg's Company at work. Along with this volunteer spot has come some incredible opportunities for me! I'm getting training on Casualty Assistance, which is something I'd been really interested in since Greg's deployment. Essentially I'm getting training on how to work with families during those first few hours, days and weeks of finding out their soldier was killed while deployed. Another interesting training I'm getting is on Traumatic Brain Injury, which has become very common in soldiers, as well as PTSD. Hopefully I can tell you more about it as I really get into them.
I'm trilled to death that I actually get to use my education for something and get some free training......LOL. I think it's funny that it's called "training," but I'll take what I can get, what ever they want to call it.
Sunday, May 18, 2008
Gainfully Employed....at last!
I have had some great opportunities, and for a person with deficits in the decision-making department, choosing can be a very difficult thing. Thankfully, I have done it. Decided. Accepted. Begun the daily grind. It's good. I'm heading toward licensure at last. My eye is on the goal. Unfortunately, this new employment experience has taken a chunk of time and leaves very little for fun and association (not that I was doing a whole lot of that before anyway), so I will continue to check this blog and keep connected as best I can. I am also still transcribing at night, just not as much, and feebly keeping up the yard. Life is good.
I hope you are all doing well, and I look forward to more of your tales and adventures.
Margie
Sunday, April 13, 2008
The Dalai Lama and Dog Parks
I feel like I just posted way back in February and I was hesitant to post since Susanne is the only who has posted since. I check this blog almost daily, along with the original Blog of Loki, and always look forward to reading what's new!
Mike and I had the opportunity to go see the Dalai Lama this weekend and it was amazing! Not only was it the most beautiful day, sunny and close to 80 degrees, but OMG the freakin' Dalai Lama!! OK, I won't sit here and act like I'm a wanna be Buddhist. Of course I'd heard of him but I was a bit fuzzy on the specifics. First off, aside from his simple, yet powerful words, he is adorable! Second, he has a great sense of humor, which I wasn't expecting. I'm not sure why but given what he has experienced, I assumed he would be much more serious and grand, dispensing his "wisdom to the masses" kind of man. But no, it was his simplicity, his humor and his frankness (even replying to "I don't know" to a question) What a great message.... We don't have to know everything! We can be honest in our ignorance but yet still be motivated to learn! Third, he talked about nonviolence, to dialogue for understanding and, one of my favs, "inner disarmament", not letting negative emotions like fear, jealousy or suspicion take control or get in the way of having compassion for others . He talked about the importance of family, the many roles it served when teaching compassion, having compassion not only for those people we like but those we don't (which sometimes might be family!). To see him bow to us, hear him say "six million beings are my ultimate source of happiness", how do you not get a bit teary!? The simplicity of his messages yet the magnitude...Wow! I would love to find a transcript of his talk to re-read when feeling like I don't have the energy to give compassion or am about to lose hope (which in our line of work can happen quickly!) All in all, it was a fabulous way to spend an afternoon!
In other news, which feels a bit odd to follow the Dalai Lama, but Mike and I are interested in getting a dog. So we have spent our last couple weekends at the Marymoor dog park, secretly scoping out all the dogs, looking for the "perfect" dog. Now, I realize, voyeuristicly checking out other's people's dogs isn't the best way to pick a pooch. But its pretty fun! Watching how dogs interact with their owners and other dogs of all sizes. Today there was a huge group of Great Dane owners (and dogs), I was squealing! It was a beautiful site, them prancing and playing like horses! Now whether or not we will get a Dane of our own is another matter. I'm still doing research into different breeds, taking into account temperament, activity level, ease of training, etc. Ultimately, it really doesn't matter what dog it is as long as its a good fit for us...
Janett
Friday, February 22, 2008
Reading
Let me know if you've read it or read it!!
Thursday, February 07, 2008
Ohio
Wow...where to start?
Things have been a bit crazy around here for Mike and me. His mom has been up visiting for a bit and we have spent the last two weekends in Sequim. It's so fun to visit his sister and play with Rhino but I'm so tired of being in the car! For him, work is really busy as he has deadlines due and is working 10+ hours a day, ick. Work for me is going well even though I have recently found out, that with a near-perfect yearly review, the agency does not give raises (or any other kind of compensation) based on performance. How motivating is that?! It is the complete opposite of basic behavioral theory!! Anyway...I have had some time to get used to that idea though I'm still not happy about it.
Some bad news...We didn't get into UW : (. Then why do they give interviews? Why can't they see Mike will the best doctor? Sigh...So if med school happens this year, we will be moving, double sad face.
Mike and I just returned from the quickest trip ever. He had an interview at Ohio State and we flew out Tuesday morning and back Wednesday night. We obviously didn't have much time to see Columbus, OH but managed to see some of the campus. We were supposed to spend a couple more days out there but Mike's work really needed him. Our flight back was delayed in Minneapolis. Once they got a pilot, true story, we left around 10pm. The flight was turbulent most of the way but nothing too crazy until we arrived closer to Seattle. Now I consider myself a pretty seasoned flyer but I was practicing my "calming strategies" like nobody's business. All I could envision was scenes from LOST...I tried to think of puppies and kittens (Rhino and Capone)...plane ripping in half...breath in through the nose, out through the mouth, deep breaths...Swimming in the ocean...Guy two rows up getting sick...Laying on a beach relaxing...Sudden thrust to the side. Now apparently there is something called a wind shear, which other than feeling like a carnival ride gone bad, effects the plane's ability to land safely. Between making sure I didn't get sick like the guy in front of us, envisioning a fiery wreckage and crushing Mike's hand, the pilot aborted a landing attempt. WTF?!How can that be good?! Hundreds of feet from the ground and the plane shaking like it’s in a blender, the pilot pulls us up. Now I thought the worst would be over but the fact that we have to undergo making a landing AGAIN is not cool. So we circle for 20 minutes, just long enough for the anxiety level in the plane to rise along with our temperatures, we make another go at it. Oh, and did I mention it's 1am? The captain isn't providing us a lot of details at this point which doesn't do much to reassure us... Upon our second try, through all the turbulence and 30 mph winds, we had the smoothest landing imaginable. We never even felt the wheels touch down. Everyone was clapping, thankful for being on the ground at f#@%ing last. We unanimously agree the pilot earned every cent of our ticket money, even if he/she doesn’t get it all. But Tuesday night he/she should have. : )
We are glad to be back.
Janett
Saturday, January 26, 2008
I'm an aunt!

Well Hello Everyone!
So Matt and I are not quite at the point of wanting to have our own children so I am happy to announce the next best thing....My brother Dan and his wife Ellie just had a baby boy!! I am reaching out because I can use all the good thoughts I can get! The baby was due in April but Ellie was having some bouts with high blood pressure....turns out that she had a tumor the size of a small apple on her kidneys...the baby was not getting enough blood so it was determined that an emercency C-section was necessary-keep in mind that Ellie was only 29 weeks along. Needless to say we were and continue to be on alert. They decided to name him Dutch Braylon Jarrett (long story) My brother always wanted a "tough name" and he wanted to keep a tradition of the same initials DBJ. He decided on Dutch because (don't laugh) it was Arnold Schwartzwagner's name in the movie Predator....feel free to groan-My mom was praying for a girl when she heard that was the chosen boy name...
He was born weighing 2.5 pounds and 15 inches long....long limbs!! I've attached a pic of him and my brother. Any positive thoughts/prayers that can be sent out into the universe for him would be wonderful-I'm flying out to Phoenix in a couple of weeks to visit so I'm really excited.
I'm happy to hear all of the good news from WA. Congrats to Mitch on the new baby-that is WONDERFUL!! And I am really happy to hear about you new job Joy!! (and jealous...I can't wait to hear more details once you get going there)
Finally, I have an interview coming up this Wednesday for a grant position through Colorado State University as a family coordinator with a program that is developing programs to build healthy marriages in Colorado. I am really excited and want to thank those of you who gave such glowing references-I will keep you posted on the status of the position.
I miss all of you so much!! I hope to see you soon!
Megan
Saturday, January 19, 2008
I'M FREE!!!!
I must admit that I have grown very close with the women I work with at Ryther. I will be sad to leave them. . .and the kids. . .it will be different but I have not felt this hopeful about my future in long time. I just feel like shouting "I'M FREE" from the roof tops!!!
Joy
Sunday, January 13, 2008
I hope everyone had a great holiday season and joyous New Year! I, for one, am a bit glad to have it all behind us and resume life as normal. It was draining having two Christmas' this year... We spent a couple days with my family and then it was off to Sequim to spend time with Mike's family. Lots of driving but it was nice to catch up with everyone! Joy and Dennis were nice enough to visit Capone while we were gone and she loved every minute of it! Last night, Capone had quite an enjoyable time playing with toys so Mike (like Joy used to do) has decided she won't sleep today until we go to bed...One thing we did discover while at his sister's is that Mike has an uncanny ability to connect with her dog, Rhino (below). Spending time with Rhino makes me yearn for the day my Great Dane and I will be united : )

As for other goings on...Mike interviews at Ohio State next month and UW next week. The med school process has been very stressful for us, the waiting, the interviews, the costs, the discussions, the what-ifs...I thought it would get easier after the studying and application essays but if anything, the waiting, which I am not good at, is stressful. Given my profession, I should be able to use lots of "feeling" words about this but I'm at a loss.
Mike and I have began "Brain Training" lately (with the help of the DS game). When I first started, my mental age was 80. It should just have said "You might be in a coma, dumb ass." Since my ego took such a hit, I have been "training" diligently and have increased my age to a respectable mental age of 27. Mike has an advantage with his math skills (especially with the Serial Subtraction, ie 105, subtract by 9 until you reach 6) but I'm quickly on his heels...
Here's a picture of Capone since I can't let Rhino take the cake....
Janett
Thursday, January 03, 2008
The Polar Bear Plunge
For the New Year celebration I went up to Bellingham to see my friend Charles. On New Year's Day we went to Birch Bay to watch the traditional New Year's Day Polar Bear Plunge. I had heard of this phenomenon going on in other states like Michigan and Alaska, but for some reason I didn't think of it happening here. Among us.
Again, have you seen this?
We got there and saw the crowd standing around in flip flops, aqua socks, and bare feet even, some with their towels wrapped around their shoulders, some without. Some wore full body covering, such as the cute dad with his little approximately 9-year-old daughter in matching pirate costumes complete with eye patch. Others wore almost nothing at all, such as the red, white, and blue very skimpy bikini. Charles said that bikini girl was a regular.
I was bewildered. Why would anyone do this? The wind was blowing. It was seriously cold. Not as cold as last year, evidently, as I overheard one mother's attempt to calm her fearful and shivering maybe 5-year-old daughter with, "At least there's no snow. Remember last year and the snow?" This little girl was clinging to her mother for dear life, dressed in a purple swim suit, her arms and legs wrapped tightly around her mother's body and her hair blowing in the arctic wind. Her mother was similarly clad.
I looked around myself at the people. Charles said they were brave. That is not the word I would have used. So, I thought about it. What is the point of running into freezing cold water and then running back out? Conquering self? Being able to say you did it? Most people got wet up to their waist or even their upper thighs. Very few actually dove in or got themselves completely wet. Bikini girl did. On the way to the car I saw her, little bikini, no towel, the skin of her entire body bright red.
I don't get it.